PUA Life

I have a question for you… What do you really want when it comes to the area of your life called “Women and Dating“? Could you explain it to me if I called you up on the phone in 5 minutes and asked you? In other words, do you really, really know just what it is that you’re looking for?

If you’re like most guys that I talk to, you probably couldn’t tell me. Or if you did tell me, it would be clear that you hadn’t taken any real time to think about it before I asked you.

Now, before I tell you why this is a problem, I have to confess something to you…

It wasn’t very long ago that I used to be in exactly the same boat. I had no idea what I was looking for. It was only after a lot of trial and error, dating crazy women that made my life impossible, and chasing my tail that I finally figured out what it was that I really wanted.

And once I figured it out, I realize that I wasn’t alone.

As it turns out, I think that most guys want what I want when it comes to “women and dating“, but they just haven’t thought about it long enough to be able to say it. I think that what 90% of men are looking for is a great long term relationship with a great woman. Read the rest of this entry →

Getting social value for creating attraction in women can come from many sources. However, one source of social value that can work for you 24×7 – whether you’re thinking about it or not – are your looks.

You don’t need to have great looks to be successful with beautiful women at all. After all, social value comes from many sources – having social proof or leading a girl’s peer group for example. And good looks alone won’t get you laid, if that’s your only source of social value.

Still, if you’re serious about maximizing your success with women, you want to fully exploit every avenue of getting social value that you can. And having good looks – specifically, having a muscular, chiseled, formed body – is one of them.

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I have a quick trick question for you. That’s right, I said a quick trick question. How can you tell if a woman is interested in you? Answer quickly. So what gives? Why am I asking you a trick question? Simple. Because I’m trying to make you think. I’m sure that, just like me, you’ve read a hundred books and articles that say things like:

“If she tilts her head to one side and strokes her neck, that’s a sign of interest…”

“If she licks her lips in a longing fashion, that means she’s interested in you…”

“If she laughs a lot, makes positive eye contact, and touches you often, then she likes you…”

Duh! I remember when I first read all this stuff. I thought to myself

“Wow, cool! I must have been missing these hints because I didn’t know to look for them. Now I’ll know when a woman is interested in me…”

Well, there was one small problem… The problem is that women display these major interest signals in about 1 of 100 interactions with men… And there was one big problem…

That problem was that none of the damn books I read said a single thing about how to make women give you these signals. In other words, what I realized is that average guys like me who don’t get “approached” by women need to learn not only what to look for, but, more importantly, how to actually create attraction in women so they gave me these signals in the first place.

So let me share with you some ideas on how to make women feel attraction for you… and then I’ll share some ideas on what to look for to tell if a woman is interested. And my ideas will be a wee bit different than the ones you read in your flirting books.

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